Ideas for Honoring Fathers (Even When It’s Hard)

Father’s Day can bring up all kinds of emotions. For some, it’s a joyful time of grilling, cards, and quality time. For others—like me this year—it’s tender. This will be my first Father’s Day without my dad, and it’s made me reflect on how important it is to truly honor our fathers while we can.

If you’re a Christian parent or teacher, you know this isn’t just “another holiday.” It’s a God-given opportunity to teach and model biblical respect and gratitude. Whether your father is near, far, or already in heaven, here are some meaningful ideas for honoring fathers this year.

1. Speak Words of Blessing

Tell your father or the father-figures in your life what they mean to you. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that life and death are in the power of the tongue. Don’t assume they already know—say the words.

Idea: Write a letter, record a short video, or share a memory with them in person.

2. Honor His Legacy

Even if your father has passed, you can still honor his influence. Share stories with your kids. Cook his favorite meal. Look through old photos and thank God for the time you had.

Idea: Create a “Father’s Legacy Page” in your Bible journal or scrapbook. Include Scripture, memories, and lessons he taught you.

3. Pray for Fathers You Know

Many dads are quietly carrying big responsibilities. Whether they’re in your home, your church, or your classroom—pray for them.

Idea: Use Father’s Day as a day of focused prayer for wisdom, strength, and faith for the dads in your life.

4. Encourage a Young Dad

New fathers often don’t hear “You’re doing a great job.” A simple note or small act of kindness can make a big impact.

Idea: Drop off coffee or a book. Text them a Scripture like Psalm 103:13—“As a father has compassion on his children…”

5. Teach Kids to Honor Their Dads

Ephesians 6:2 tells us to “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise. Use this day as a teaching opportunity.

Idea: Let kids draw pictures, write prayers, or list what they love about Dad. Keep it simple and heartfelt.

6. Celebrate with Purpose

Gifts and meals are great—but don’t forget the deeper meaning. Make it about more than the card aisle.

Idea: At the dinner table, go around and share what you appreciate about Dad (or Grandpa, or a spiritual father).

7. Remember the Father Heart of God

If Father’s Day is painful because of loss or broken relationships, draw near to your Heavenly Father. Psalm 68:5 says He is “a father to the fatherless.”

Idea: Spend quiet time in prayer or read passages about God’s fatherly love (like Luke 15 or Psalm 103).

This Year, Don’t Let It Slip By

Father’s Day isn’t just about gifts. It’s about gratitude. Whether you’re honoring a dad here on earth or remembering one who has passed, take time this year to pause, reflect, and give thanks. Let this be the year we truly honor the fathers God has placed in our lives.